November 2020


November we an interesting month.  It started off with Election Day (11/3).  The boys were very interested in watching the news as the results started coming in.  Unfortunately, there was not clear winner by the end of the day.  Votes were still being counted in key states with races that were too close to call.  The mail-in ballots extended the vote counting.  

November 4th, still no elections results.  In fact, the experts are saying that this whole process may take up until the day of the inauguration as President Trump is calling for recounts in several states and is threatening law suits in other states over the results.  It will be an interesting several weeks.  

Today was also my last day of tutoring the kids before Mrs. Joplin returns.  Mixed emotions about that!

November 5th we found out that Naomi made the JV volleyball team.  She is super excited.  

November 6th when I got to school, someone was parked in both of my assigned spaces.  What are the odds of that one?!?!  Also, I signed the official offer letter for the Support Squad position.  

November 7th enough of the votes have been counted now and Biden has gotten more than the required amount of electoral votes to become the next president.  President Trump still does not have enough electoral votes and is nowhere near the required amount.  He is mad and has ramped up his effort to prove voter fraud and sue several states. 

The football field is finished and the kids LOVE getting to play on it each day during physical activity.  

Sunday, November 8th we had our 4th annual Turkey Shoot.  This year we had to hold it in the garage and everyone was wearing masks, but they didn't mind because they love this tradition!!  They also love that I ask the questions that will be on the upcoming assessment.  




At school we are studying the respiratory system and the kids are loving all the experiments.  One day we did a lung capacity test.  The kids took a deep breath and blew as much air as they could into their balloon.  They then measured the circumference of the balloon to see what their lung capacity looked like.  Each student did it three times and then compared their numbers to the numbers of their fellow students.  



We also made a model of the lung and diaphragm using a bottle, straw, clay, an elastic and two balloons.  I am really going to miss these kids, but they are so excited to have Mrs. Joplin come back. I can't blame them because she is an incredible teacher.  


November 11th Sandra and I were finally able to reconnect for lunch.  With everything that has been going on we haven't been able to get together since ... April?... TOO LONG!!  We had a lot of catching up to do.  

While I was gone to lunch, Steve and Naomi went to IKEA to get her new bedroom furniture.  She wanted to upgrade everything to better reflect her soon-to-be 15-year-old self.  A family in the ward (the Ts) came and picked up her loft bed for their oldest son who was super excited to have the coolest bed ever!!

November 12th we had historic rainfall in Charlotte!  My argument for getting kayaks is much stronger today.  

Exhibit A!

November 13th - Naomi is officially 15!  I cannot believe that my baby is 15.  Where has the time gone?  She is still the fun-loving, smart, sassy girl she has always been.  

Cheesecake and sushi were the menu for this birthday.  



November 16th was chicken leg dissection day!   We were studying the musculoskeletal system in science and dissecting a chicken leg is a great way to show off everything.  Ms. Costenoble and I ended up splitting the dissection responsibility since the other two science teachers were grossed out by the process.  It was so much fun!!!  I loved every minute of it and the kids learned a lot about muscles and bones.  The biggest complaint was that they didn't get to do the dissecting themselves.  Mrs. Joplin was in for the second half of the day and the kids enjoyed getting to know her.  

Steve called me later that afternoon and told me he was waiting on an official offer letter for a job that would start in February (well after his no-compete clause would expire).  I was grateful since Steve had been feeling really down on himself.  This is month 5 of not having a job in his field and it was starting to wear on him.  

November 17th was my last day in the classroom with the kiddos!  It was a bitter sweet day.  One of the kid called me "magical" today.  I will miss them so much, but plan to come and visit as much as I can without becoming a nuisance.  

November 18th was pass the torch day.  I spent the day with Mrs. Joplin going over the kiddos and their needs and amazing qualities and any routines we had gotten in, etc.  The kids are going to love having Mrs. Joplin back.  During our team meeting the teachers surprised me with cards from the kids and a card signed by all the teachers with  $100 to "spend on myself".  I have loved every minute of my time with this team of amazing teachers.  They taught me so much about loving others and keeping things in perspective.  I will be forever grateful to Kathy Oneil for putting up with me and helping me through the three months of teaching through two different plans.  I learned so much from Ms. Costenoble, Colberg and In about planning math and science lessons and how to just tuck and roll when things don't go as planned.  The beauty of my new position is that I still get to work with them and help with students who are struggling.  

November 19th was my first day on the Support Squad.  Ms. Jones had set up a great office area in her room for me so I would have a place to work.  It was also pajama day at school and I had promised the kids that I would wear my penguin onsie.  They didn't believe that I had one.  They loved my onsie and penguin slippers!  To make things better, Ms Jones and I went to each class in the school to reintroduce the support squad and show the kids how to access the new app on their ipads to get to the Support Squad via Zoom or email.  It was a fun and busy day.  
Pirella, me, Tedder and Jones dressed up for pajama day

Also on this, the 19th day of November, Steve found out about a potential offer from Newell Brands, he had a flat tire caused by a broken off key and the JV team won their first match against North Lincoln.


November 21st I was feeling kind of sad and then God sent this beautiful sky to cheer me up.  He knows me so well. 

November 23rd and 24th were remoted half days before the Thanksgiving holiday.  I had a lot of kids stop by my Zoom asking for help.  This new job is proving to be both fun and challenging.  I reached out to each teacher for names of students who could use a little help and encouragement and the response was a little overwhelming.  There are so many students who are struggling with at-home learning. Hopefully I can help some of them improve their motivation and grades in the coming quarters.  

November 25th I woke up and NEEDED to go on a walk.  It was a gorgeous day and the temperature was just right.  There were so many interesting and beautiful things to see.  I am proud to say that I have turned into my mom.  We always teased her for stopping and getting up close with the flowers and nature and today I stopped and took pictures of the flowers and the trees and... two of  my favorite pictures are below.  

Imprints of leaves on the sidewalk. 

This tree bark is really interesting.  I love it.  

Back at home, Nick wanted to take his car in for an oil, lube and filter and also to have the tires rotated.  We dropped his car off at the dealer and then went grocery shopping for a few things we still needed for Thanksgiving and also to buy food to restock our 72-hour kits.  Nick is my grocery shopping buddy.  We have a good time and usually find something new we want to try.   We headed home where we got everything and unloaded when Naomi asked if we were going to paint her ceiling white again.  She had a habit of putting her toes on the ceiling when she had the loft bed and now she didn't want to look at the toe juice anymore.  We got her ceiling done and the kids were hungry.  They wanted Krispy Krunchy Chicken so I drove them to get some lunch and then it was off to pick up Nick's car.  Back at home we finished putting some drawers together for Naomi's room. We also put up the lights her Aunt Laura had given her for her birthday.  The effect was super cool. The lights have a remote control and she can change the color too.  It finishes off her room and she LOVES it.    


While Naomi and I were working on her desk drawers I hear Steve talking to someone in the garage and went down to check it out.  Our "new" neighbor,, Mo (not the one who greets the cars every morning on the corner but the one that bought the house next to Donita) had come over to talk.  We hadn't officially met him yet because our schedules are so different.  He is very nice and it was fun to get to know him a little better.  

November 26th was a good Thanksgiving Day!  I was almost done fixing the meal when the microwave died.  It wouldn't be a Thanksgiving without one of the appliances giving up.  We all laughed, had a great meal and boxed up some of the leftovers to go give to the homeless.  We drove around Charlotte looking for people who needed a meal.  We were lucky and found several people on street corners with signs asking for food or money.  

November 27th we got a new microwave.  Steve and the kids wanted to heat up their Thanksgiving left-overs so it was top priority!  We are starting to transition our appliances to stainless steel and it is going to complete the kitchen make-over once that is done and the new flooring goes in.  Don't hold your breath.  That may not happen in the next several years, but baby steps are always good.  We also got the clothing in the 72-hour kits updated.  It was funny, and a little sad, to see how much the kids had grown since we last updated things in the kits.  We are now ready for an emergency again.  Let's hope we don't need them - but it is 2020 so you never know.  

November 28th I spent the day setting up the Christmas stuff.  I love putting up the Christmas stuff.  Our house is so festive!

November 30th when I picked Naomi up from volleyball practice she showed me her knees (which were scary bruised - see picture below) and told me that she bruised them playing pickle ball in PE.  Ouch!  But she had fun doing it so I guess it was worth it.  



Naomi's volleyball pictures came in the mail!!!!!! Check them out!!!!!!!!




October 2020

October was a flurry of fun events.  It started off with all the teachers getting ready to head into Plan B which meant we were prepping the room for students!  We were heading into hybrid mode which meant half the kids on Monday/Thursday and the other half on Tuesday/Friday.  It was going to make the gradebook very complicated, but we were getting to see the kids!  

I took some time off and went and had my hair done.  My gray hair was out of control and I needed a haircut as well.  It felt good to become human again. 

October 3rd Jen and Brian Isom came to town!  Jen was my college roommate and Brian was a friend from the singles ward back in the day.  They met when Jen came with me to a Valentine's singles ward activity.  I love that two of my most excellent friends found each other and have made an eternity out of it.  Jen had a goal to visit all the capital cities in the USA and she hadn't done the South yet.  They stopped by for a fun evening on their way from Raleigh to Atlanta.  I was showing Jen around the house and we had stopped in Nick's room.  She commented on his car posters and then told him that her dream car was a gun metal gray Dodge Charger.  He looked at me like I had prompted her to say that because that is MY favorite car too.  Jen laughed when she found out the reason for the puzzled look.  We hadn't told each other our favorite cars - we are just kindred spirit friends. We went to Bad Daddy's in Birkdale to have dinner and just hang out for the night.  It was like no time had passed since we saw them last.  I was also excited to have the kids meet them because I have told the kids stories about Jen and Brian.  They especially love the one about how Jen bit Brian the first time they met.  It was so good to catch up and reminisce.   Hopefully soon we will get to go and visit them in Las Vegas.  

Two cameras and I chose the other one (In case you were wondering about the kind of crazy look on my face.)  It was so good to see Jen and Brian!

Not only did I get to see Jen and Brian that first weekend in October, but it was also General Conference!  Best! Weekend! Ever!   The talks were uplifting and inspirational.  I needed to hear a lot of what they said and came out of the weekend feeing more hopeful than I have in months.  

Friday, October 9th we did a practice day for the new schedule.  The kids were still at home, but we switched them to the new bell schedule they would be following when Plan B started on Monday.  It was a hectic day with having to open two folders (two cohorts for the two days they would be in school) for each period and stay on track while Zooming with each class to make sure they understood the new schedule and the new folders and everything.  HUGE learning curve, but WE GET TO SEE THE STUDENTS ON MONDAY!!!!

After school was out for the day I helped fit Julie's dress for her son's wedding.  It was fun to spend some time just talking while we pinned and designed.  I also finally got the books we "weeded" from the school library back in March to Carolyn so she can use them for "her kids" at work.   It was a productive day.   

October 12th was the first day with the kids back in the classroom.  The whole day I felt like I was one step behind.  I loved having the kids in the classroom, but it was an adjustment staying on schedule and making sure we were doing what we were supposed to be doing.  The day ended much better than it started and I truly loved getting to know the kids in person.  They were so much different than during our Zoom classes.  
The 5th grade team on the first day of in-person. 
front row left to right: Costenoble, Bond, A. Oneal, Pirella
second row left to right:  Bish, In, Colberg
back row left to right:  K. Oneil, me, Leach

It was also Naomi's first day of in-person at the high school.  She loved it and her day was much calmer and more relaxing than mine.  
Naomi's shirt she did for her 7th grade science class is in the display case right by the front door to the school.  She has been immortalized.  

Official first day picture.  She helped me carry a bunch of stuff into my classroom and posed right before heading over to the high school.  


October 14th Nick found out that he got the job at Pike's Nursery.  He was really excited to have a job again.  

October 15th and 16th was Parent Teacher Conferences.  Mrs. Oneil and I did them together 1) because I had never done them before and 2) we needed both of us to fill up the time since we didn't have any beginning of year test scores to present and discuss.  I loved having her there for the more difficult parents who wanted to know why their student wasn't doing very well.  I learned a lot of tactful ways to say your child is not very smart and quite lazy.  

October 17th we left bright and early to go to the craft fair in Gatlinburg!  It was a super fun day and a miracle that everyone had the day off.  I loved spending time as a family and getting out of our four walls.  There were so many talented crafts people at the fair.  We all found something that was interesting and fun.  

Driving through the Smokey Mountains.  The low-lying clouds always make it look smokey - thus the name.  

The fall colors were really pretty as well.  

Walking the streets of Gatlinburg. It is a fun little town.  

At the craft show.  

My favorite find of the day.  Jeremy and Nick found a tea vendor and a lady who made yummy-smelling soap.  Naomi found a giant stuffed animal frog.  Steve had the most unique find of the day - a razor with and antler as a handle and another antler for the stand.  


After the fair the kids found an arcade and in this arcade there was a Star Wars game where you felt like you were in the cockpit of an X-wing fighter.  Everyone had to try it out.  

After attending the fair we found a little Southern BBQ place for lunch.  The food was excellent!  We spent some time roaming around Gatlinburg before getting in the truck and heading back home.  We all really needed this day out together.  

October 18th Steve and I voted early.  It was an interesting situation with masks, social distancing and lots of hand sanitizer.  They even gave each voter a pen which had a stylus tip so you wouldn't have to touch the screen with your fingers.  

Naomi's art project for school.  It is all done in pencil.  She is really good.  

Another of Noami's projects for Mrs. Tedder.  

October 19th Dr. Graham called me into her office to ask me if I would be interested in a full-time position starting as soon as Mrs. Joplin returned through the end of the school year tutoring the at-home kids when they didn't have access to their teachers.  I would be available on Zoom for the kids to pop in and ask me question about their science and/or social studies projects.  I would also be put in charge of any kids who were really struggling.  I would meet with them regularly to make sure they were organized and turning in assignments.  I asked for a few days to think about it as it would mean that I wouldn't be able to sub for the rest of the year.  

On the 19th, Steve and I also worked with our financial guy to get Steve's 401K from Premier rolled over into an IRA so we would have better control over how it was invested and we could continue to contribute to it.  

October 20th Naomi taught the young women in the ward how to paint a landscape.  They were in our garage and all wearing masks, but after 6 long months of not being able to meet they were happy with whatever they could get.  There are some budding artists in the group.  

Our garage as an art studio

Steve worked late that night getting the store ready for the big wig visit the next day.  Jeremy voted for the first time and Nick filled out all the paperwork for his new job. 

That is a spider in the middle of the web.  This was the best picture I could get, but the spikes were super cool.  He looked like a little crab. 

October 25th Nick voted for the first time.  

October 27th I made an appointment with Kelsey Kraaima.  Kelsey is really good with pixie cuts which is exactly what Naomi wanted. 

Naomi's new do.  She really likes it.  
SPIRIT WEEK AT SCHOOL!  Tuesday was Tie Dye Tuesday and Meg Bond tie dyed shirts in LNC colors for all of us.  

The 5th grade team in our cool tie-dye shirts.  Meg even tie dyed her shoes and mask.  

I had to take a picture of the sky.  This is without any filters or touch-ups or anything.  It was stunning!

October 29th was an interesting day at school.  The day started off with the door, which I KNOW was shut completely, creaked open in the most eerie way.  The kids were all a little freaked out.  About 20 minutes later there was a creaking in the ceiling just over our heads.  It sounded like someone was walking around above us, but I asked and that was not possible.  Not more than a half an hour later the power went out!  We were plunged into darkness.  The storm had knocked out the power.  I took advantage of the situation and went to the library and got some scary stories books for me and Mrs. Pirella to read to our students.  They had just announced to the parents that school was closing early due to a power outage when the power came back on.  The kids didn't know that the parents had been told to come get them, but the teachers did and we were disappointed when the school notified all the parents that we would not be dismissing early after all.  

October 30th was costume day.  I broke out my Elphaba outfit and had fun at school  


Madison and I were twins.  Great minds think alike.  

That night Nick went to a church single adults party.  He was excited about his French maid costume.  Everyone at the party like it too and voted for him for "Best Costume".  He had a really good time.  

All dressed up for his party.  

Getting into character.  

Steve and I went to a small party at the Arias's house.  We had a great time playing games and socializing for a bit.  It is amazing to me just how much I miss getting together with friends and how much we took it for granted before Covid.  

October 31st Naomi and I went to Mrs. Oneil's house to paint her shutters black to match her new, purple door.  Naomi needed service hours for school so this was a win-win.  Back at home we make preparations for Halloween.  Nick was going to hand out with his friends after work.  Naomi went to Leah's to be with her friends as well.  Jeremy was working so it was just me and Steve.  He was happy and content playing in the garage with his new (off of Facebook market) bandsaw.  Due to Covid, we only had two groups of trick-or-treaters - the Tufts/Warner clans and my seminary kids.  Instead of the usual two or three pieces of candy, everyone got a handful.  

Naomi in her gruesome Halloween makeup.  You can't see it, but on her left cheek it looks like there is a hole in her cheek and her teeth are showing through.  She lives for this time of year and an excuse to due gross makeup stuff.  I think she may have a career here.  



September 2020

September 1st started off with a bang - literally.  We had a wicked thunderstorm right on top of our house all night long.  It started about 1 am and lasted until about 8 am.  The thunder was so loud it rattled the windows and the house sounded like it was getting power washed. Torrential downpour!!!

September 2nd all of the teachers and staff at the middle school met for a drive-by farewell to Mrs. Hammond.  She had decided to retired a year early due to COVID.  Steve dropped Nick and Naomi off at the middle school so they could be a part of the farewell caravan.  She was such an instrumental influence on both Nick and Naomi and I would credit her for  helping them get set up for success all their years at LNC.  I am sad to see her go, but she will have a life-long legacy at the school.  

September 3rd Jeremy had a phone interview with CPCC for  a support position and Nick applied at Aesics.  

September 4th another one of Steve's scouting buddies hooked him up with more free cedar.  A cedar tree had fallen on his property and he just wanted it gone.  Steve is a happy boy.  

September 6th and 7th Naomi and I blitz painted the living room and kitchen.  

BEFORE PICTURES

Prepping the walls and getting the ceiling finished.  





Her favorite part of the whole painting project - getting to sit in the cubby above the fireplace. 

AFTER PICTURES




It is so much brighter and feels more open.  I love the new look!

Now that the downstairs is done I had time to notice nature again.  There are so many cool things in the world if you take the time to notice.  
Twisty tree

Amazing spider web.  This was first thing in the morning with all the dew accenting the detail.  

September 9th I tutored the kids all day.  We fixed some Google problems and got more organized.  We even had a dance party to celebrate getting stuff done.  Steve also got some bites on his resumes he had given to friends who handed them out to some of their friends.  Cross your fingers.  

September 10th Steve had two interviews.  One of them was planned and the other was impromptu.  He felt good about both of them.  Also, the LNC Board voted to go to Plan B (2 cohorts, 1/2 capacity) starting on October 12th.  We have a month to get everything planned.  

September 11th Nick had an interview with Aesics.  The manager gave him a stapler and told him to sell it to her.  He started messing around with it while telling her about the features.  At one point, he was trying to open it to show how you can staple things to walls and he accidentally stapled his finger.  Without missing a beat he said, "You can see how sharp the staples are!"  If he doesn't get the job at least he created a very memorable interview.  

September 15th Steve taught the boys at church how to use a bow and arrow.  They have been wanting to do an archery class for some time and we are finally back to in-person activities.  Steve when down to Camp Belk and borrowed some bows, arrows and targets.  The boys really enjoyed it.  Bishop Arias wants to buy bows for all his kids now. They really enjoyed it as well.  


 I was also offered a job at LNC through the end of the year helping out the Support Squad with the distance and at-home learners who might need a little tutoring in science and social studies.  


September 16th Nick got a new stereo for his car.  He is one happy boy now that he can play his songs and ramp up the base.  Steve interviewed with the president of a company out of Florida.  Everything went well, but his 'no compete clause' is causing problems as this company is in the same line of work as Steve did at Premier.  Steve cannot work in the same field until the end of January.  They are willing to wait so we will see what comes of it. 

I said yes to the job at LNC.  Dr. Graham was really happy.  I will start immediately after finishing up as Ms. Joplin.  I am both excited and terrified at the same time - mostly excited.  

September 17th it rained all day long.  The remnants of Hurricane Sally dropped just over 6 inches of rain on Charlotte.  

September 21st the kids turned in their biomes project.  They created a travel brochure for a specific location in one of the world's biomes.  I felt like I was travelling virtually while grading them.  It was a great project!  The kids enjoyed it as well.  WIN-WIN!

September 22nd Nick interviewed at Sherwin Williams.  

September 23rd was a busy day tutoring at school in the morning and meetings in the afternoon.  Steve helped at the Bishop's Storehouse distribution in the morning and went to the dentist in the afternoon to have a cracked tooth repaired.  In the afternoon I took Nick to see Dr. Vallat about his numerous MRSA infections.  The doctor at Urgent Care had recommended getting in touch with a dematologist to see if we could stop the infections with Nick. Dr. Vallat gave us some great ideas.  Nick started them as soon as we got home by taking all his personal belongings out of the bathroom and even hanging his towels in his room so no one else will use them.  No more sharing in their bathroom.  Nick also cooked dinner that night.  He wanted to try getting steak done just right.  Nailed it!

September 25th we had a small get together for Sara Muller's birthday.  She had an escape room game for us and it was really fun.  Steve spent the day making his own target for archery. 

September 26th I was home alone for the first time since the quarantine started.  It felt really weird.  Steve and Nick were at work, Naomi was with a friend and Jeremy had a job interview.  I got so much done.  The bathrooms got cleaned and the yard got weeded.  At 5 I went to The Point on Lake Norman to pick up Naomi and her friend, Maeve, who had been hanging at a house where Maeve's sister was house sitting.  From there we went to Nicole Pirella's party for her husband and then to Five Guys for dinner.  Another notable thing, I got all my grading caught up.  It was a great day.  

September 27th I took Nick to the Urgent Care AGAIN for another MRSA sore.  Steve turned a bowl on his new lathe.  It was pretty cool.  

September 29th the MRSA was not getting any better so I took Nick back to the Urgent Care where they lance the second sore that was really close to the first sore.  The poor kid just can't catch a break with this stuff.  The new stuff Dr. Vallat gave us to try didn't even have a chance to start working before this MRSA took a hold.  UUURRRRRRGGGGGG!  We will beat this.  

Well, September came in and went with a lot of commotion.  Here is to a more quiet October.