July started off with a nice 2 hour walk around the mall with a good friend. She had been so busy over her birthday that we didn't have a chance to get together. We talked the whole 2 hours as we walked and then realized we were hungry (5 miles or 15,000 steps will do that to you). We went to Panera for lunch. It was a great morning. I love catching up with my friends.
That night we were all actually home for pizza and movie night. That is a rarity. The pizza was great. The movie (Luca) was fun. It was the company that topped the whole night.
July 3rd Jeremy got his acceptance letter to UNCC. He is officially a 49er!
Nick made mochiko chicken for a party at his friend's house. He has become known for his fun and different foods he prepares for the parties.
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| The mosquitoes really like Nick. This is actually a small one comparatively speaking. |
July 6th I took dinner over to a teacher who had just had a baby. I held the sweet little thing while they ate dinner and we chatted. That is what I call a win-win.
July 8th I finally got to do something I had wanted to do for some time, but didn't want to go alone. The family came with me to explore the changes that were made to the Mallard Creek Park when the school was built next to it. Mallard Creek Park was the site of our weekly homeschool Park Days. It is also where Nick played rec baseball for several years. We tried to find some of our favorite places in the park and it has changed a lot. The creek where they used to play is not there anymore. The trails have been turned into a cross country running course for Mallard Creek High School. In the middle of the "forest" there is now a drainage pond for the elementary school. As we were walking I noticed little things jumping out of of the way of our footsteps. I couldn't tell if they were jumping spiders (EWWWW) or baby frogs (CUTE!). They turned out to be baby frogs!!! After the walk, which everyone enjoyed and several memories were shared, we went to Andy's Custard for a treat. I love these impromptu family activities.
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| Baby frog - oh so cute and much better than a jumping spider |
July 9th I woke up to an oddly quiet house. Nick was supposed to be up and getting ready to go to school. I quietly opened his door and asked him if he was feeling okay. He said he was and asked why. When I told him what time it was he was out of bed and out the door in record time. The poor kid has been really pushing it lately and he is exhausted. This is the first time he has slept in since he started school last August. He said he made it to school only three minutes late and no one seemed to notice he was late. He was sure to mention that he didn't speed either.
July 11th we realized that no one had to work or go to school or ... and we immediately turned it into a BEACH DAY!!!!!! We left the house at 6 am and head to Kure Beach in Wilmington. About 9 am everyone was hungry and we were near our favorite Waffle House in Laurinburg. We were at the beach by 10 and played in the waves until 3 p.m. The water was perfect and the waves were great! It was just what we all needed. We had a late lunch/early dinner at Mackeral Jacks and then headed home. All of us were a little sunburned, but we didn't care because we had been in the ocean and had sand between our toes. We Zoomed with my family on the way home and then Zoomed with Steve's family when got back. It was the perfect day!!!
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| Steve and Nick dropped their stuff and headed immediately into the water. |
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| Catching a wave |
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| I have missed watching them play in the waves! |
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| BIG smiles on their faces! |
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| Jeremy took a nice nap on the beach. |
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| I played in the waves for a bit and then took some time to put my toes in the sand. I am one happy human. |
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| Jeremy woke up and immediately joined the others. |
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| Avian taking a little nap after playing in the waves. |
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| Jeremy got a little sunburned, but it was SOOOOO worth it. |
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| Goodbye gorgeous beach. Until next time. |
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| Jeremy bought this sticker to commemorate the day! |
July 12th Avian and I got to spend the week working together. We organized the teachers technology and their cords. It was a fun week.
July 13th Steve and I helped one of our neighbors pick up some furniture for their daughter who was trying to furnish her apartment. We drove to the middle of nowhere in Concord and I was starting to think we were going on a fool's errand when we pulled up in front of a house that had chickens roaming all over the large backyard. I then noticed the kitten playing in the weeds and decided this place was heaven. The kids all came out to greet us and I got talking to them about their kitten and chickens which turned into a huge meet and greet. I was introduced to each chicken. They knew all of them by name (all 52 of them). Ari, Jojo and Noah were my guides and the two youngest kids stayed with their mother. In the hen house we watched a chicken lay an egg and the kids were so excited I got to see it. Several of their chickens were named after characters in Avatar and Stranger Things and I earned cool points for knowing those two shows. I thought it was hilarious that they had named their mean rooster Voldemort. These kids were a blast to hang out with. I miss the days of homeschooling the kids. Things were so much simpler then. At the end of the visit they sent me home with a dozen of their eggs. When I cooked them up and served them to Nick, he noticed the better taste immediately. I would love to have some chicken of our own! Someday.
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| I love the different colors! |
I got my official offer letter for the Intervention Specialist position at school. I am excited to get to help the kids be their very best each day at school.
July 14th was one week before Nick's court date and he was really worried so I called the lawyer to check on things and see if there Ryan had any words of advice for Nick. I found out that the court date had been postponed until --- February 11, 2022 -- Nick's 20th birthday! Let's hope it is a good birthday present the courts deliver.
July 18th we took our pilgrimage to South Carolina to get peaches. We haven't been for several years and it was time since our freezer was getting low on peaches. The kids were all excited to go because of the fresh peach ice cream. This was also a yearly tradition that got interrupted by COVID!!! We loved the trip and loved having fresh peaches for the next several days while we got all the peaches put up. I love this tradition.
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| Truth!!! |
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| Eating our ice cream in the rocking chairs in front of McBee Farms store. |
July 23rd, Nick finally got his RC car he had earned at work. It is FAST!!! Several neighbors came out and watched as he raced it up and down the street.
July 24th I weeded the yard all morning long and Steve finished the cigar box guitar he had been working on for a couple of months. We got cleaned up and went to the Willet's farewell party. They are moving to New Jersey to live on some land owed by her dad. They will be missed at LNC, but they are excited about getting to renovate the old farmhouse. I spent some time making the Cafe Rio fixins and a cake for the following day. Nick went on a date and had a great time. Steve took the guitar and let Kev give it a trial run. It got the seal of approval!
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| All done and ready to mail. It sounds as good as it looks! |
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| Steve carved a dragon into the head to match the box. |
July 25th we celebrated Steve's birthday one day early since everyone was going to be home. He really wanted to go to the Sistine Chapel exhibit so I got tickets and we all went. It was beautiful and very interesting.
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| That is Steve in the middle looking up and enjoying being surrounded by art. |
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| The different panels of the ceiling were enlarged and a poster showed where the panel was in the ceiling and told the story of who was depicted and why Michelangelo had chosen that design. |
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| The detail was incredible. |
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| This is what Michelangelo thought Isaiah looked like. It is nice to have a face to go with this famous prophet. |
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| He is such a goofball and LOVES having us sing Happy Birthday to him. |
July 26th Steve took the day off, at the request of his boss (I love his new boss!) and he enjoyed his day. I worked the whole day as the deadline for getting the teachers rooms done is quickly approaching and we still had a lot to do.
July 27th we finally located the source of a weird barking noise that sounded like it was coming from behind the siding initially and then from the fireplace. Steve rescued a tree frog that had somehow gotten stuck in the fireplace vent.
July 28th Nick invited Kelsey (the one he had gone out with over the weekend) over for dinner. We had a great time talking and getting to know her better. She has several food sensitivities so we were careful to get food she could eat.
July 29th Avian and I went shopping for school clothes. It was fun to spend the day with them and get what they needed.
July 30th Steve had another what we thought was a screw in his tire and went to Discount Tire to get it fixed. SURPRISE! Last time it was a key and this time it was a bullet casing. They couldn't fix it and since his other tires had over 60,000 miles on them we had to replace all of them. It was an expensive day, but the new tires look really nice. I just hope this trend of puncturing his tires with weird things will now come to an end.
That night we had a ladies night at the Arias house. It was fun to swim in the pool at night and get to know some of the other ladies in the ward. Laura, Monica and I also had fun diving off the diving board and doing cannon balls.
Bright and early on July 31st we were on the road to Delks. Avian and Steve wanted to go and I had never been so they let me tag along. It was impressive and overwhelming. There was so much stuff in that warehouse. It was a veritable survival heaven. On the way home we stopped at a flea market and walked around for a bit. It was a fun morning. That night both the men and women USA teams won the gold medal in the 1500 relay. Bobby Finke competed in the 800 and won the gold which hasn't happened for I think they said 37 years. Thirty-seven years since the USA took gold in that event! That is unreal!! It was awesome to watch. He was in position to possibly take Bronze when the last lap hit and he went into high gear. He won by almost a complete body length!!!! There was some cheering going on in the Cannon house that night.
Just a little fun and some interesting weather trivia to end the blog for July. Enjoy!!































































